Secret Relationships
What puts us in a position of vulnerability?
Is it possible to have a secret? (not from God)
What fuels our self-indulgence? (promise of happiness)
Our hope is beyond this life. The pleasures of this life is not compared to the pleasures in heaven.
The power to change a self-indulgence behavior is believing in another/better promise of happiness.
When feeling tempted, identify the need (needing comfort/a distraction) and choice a healthy alternative (God glorifying).
Admiration, Affirmation, Affection (Things to work on, marriage advice)
Complete forgiveness and good memories (marriage advice)